Interlude- Our Airbnb in Inverness, CA

If you didn't catch part one of this series yet, you can read it by clicking here


Once we knew we'd be flying into San Francisco, our next decision was figuring out where we'd spend the first couple days of our trip. Our initial thought was to wait until the last minute and book an Express Deal through Priceline in the SF. While that is a great option in most cases, we ended up finding this place about 45 minutes outside the city. I say it a lot, but we have country souls. While we love venturing into big cities for the food, coffee shops, parks and thrilling atmosphere, we're also pretty introverted so it can wear us out quick. 

For me personally, where we stay on vacation is a huge part of me actually enjoying the vacation. And for this particular trip, I knew we'd be pushing ourselves a lot (long days of hiking and exploring big cities). So knowing we'd have beautiful, happy, clean places to recharge at the end of the day was a top priority.  

This place was a last minute booking.  And we'd return to it in a second. From the long winding drive to the house, to the many skylights that leaked sun into the home throughout the day, we loved it all. Simply put, it was magic. Read on to find out why. 

(The link to this beautiful Airbnb listing can be found at the bottom of this post.)

We pulled up to this place excited, but travel weary. Both Jonathan and I had been awake since around 3am that morning. The kids were sick of being constrained to seats and I think we were all hangry. 

We stepped inside this home and my mouth popped open like a soda can. Joy fizzled up inside me and just kept chuckling to myself, "Are you kidding me, God? How can You be this good?!" 

The vaulted, sky-lit ceilings. The wood beams that glowed like warm honey. The heart-opening view off the back deck. It was all much grander than we expected and a glorious launching point for our trip. 

The house was open, airy and bright. It all flowed together in a effortless, peaceful way. There was only one bedroom but because of the tall ceilings, we hardly noticed. I'm serious when I say we could have stayed here for a week longer and been perfectly happy to do so. 

My favorite story from this place was our first morning there. The entire home was encased in old, tall trees. As in, we could look out any window at anytime of day and see nothing but trees (except for on the back deck, with that gorgeous view of Tomales Bay). 

That morning, we each woke up in our ways, slowly, with no real plans for the day. The sun rose slowly through the mist and shimmered through the green canopy over head. 

To the left of the back deck, there was a gigantic Butterfly Bush. Jonathan suddenly noticed that the tiny black things  whirring all around it weren't insects.

They were hummingbirds. 

I can't explain it, but I've been delighted by hummingbirds my whole life.  I truly believe Jesus remembered that and lovingly included it as a sweet love note to be tucked inside this trip. 

Me and Behr snuck onto the deck and watched them whiz and chatter by with the sunrise warming the earth behind us. In those moments, I felt seen. I felt loved. 

My Father knows me. 

I think what surprised and fascinated me the most about Inverness were views as we simply drove around. I'd never seen anything like it. Imagine steep, treeless hills rising and falling sharply on all sides. Greens and golds around every turn. We were constantly gasping, pointing and feeling wonder expand in our chests as we wound through the hills. 

A little bonus about this location was the quaint, hidden gem of city named Point Reyes. This tiny place feels like you're walking into a party where everyone knows each other but is also really excited that you showed up too. The people here were friendly and informative. The grocery store was admittedly pricey but the bread from there was an amazing treat. Our favorite places were the bakery and bookstore  with their charming, creaky floors and eye-rolling good pastries. 

There were a lot of early mornings here (because our kids don't sleep in ever). There were  a lot of days spent in our pajamas, eating frozen lasagna for lunch, and tickle fights on the giant bed.

We slowed down and drank deep of the Lord's goodness here. 

Things I want to remember:

  • The way the wind tossed the trees in emerald praise above our heads just outside the door
  • The sunrises and sunsets here. Each glorious in totally distinct ways.
  • The first night when Scout hit a wall of exhaustion and confusion and the only place she would be consoled was Daddy's arms. 

We were sad to leave this place and hope in hearts to come back one day. Inverness, CA not only gave us this lovely, restful house but also the adventures of hiking in a hills that looked straight out of Irish fairytale, a walk in a grove of ancient cypress trees and a golden evening on the pacific shoreline that about made my heart implode from the weight of happiness we experienced. 

But more on that later.

Part three coming soon....

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Travel Notes

  • You can find the link our home in Inverness, CA by clicking HERE.
  • If you want the best of both worlds (small town feel but access to San Francisco) and don't mind driving a little, considering staying in Inverness. We would totally do it that way again. 
  • The tiny road that winds up to this place is hard to spot and basically a one lane, so be aware of that! 
  • This place is full of windows so if your kids sleep better in the dark, it's something to keep in mind. 
  • There was only one room but there was a giant closet in the master room where we put Scout's Lotus Crib.
  • Speaking of which, it's from Guava Family and we can't recommend them enough. We bought one year's ago for Behr and still use it! Scout's Lotus Crib was generously sent over by Guava Family for me to review at my request. Full post on that coming soon! 

Travel Day/San Francisco Day One

 

interlude

(ɪntəʳluːd  ) countable noun

An interlude is a short period of time
when an
activity or situation stops and something else happens. 

"It was a happy interlude in their life."

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This is my first post in a blog series I'm calling, "Interlude". This series will include everything  about our trip up the West Coast in the Spring of 2018. It was our pause, our light-hearted song in between the larger acts of our family's story; a small respite from the weariness we've known. We're so thankful God worked all the moving parts together in order for it to happen. This will be a milestone and treasured memory in our personal histories for the rest of our days. 

I hope you enjoy all of this as much as I loved putting it all together. 

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Before I begin, here are a few disclaimers:

  • This series is primarily for my personal enjoyment. I needed a fun, creative outlet.  I also wanted to  document everything throughly and beautifully. While I will be sharing tips, resources and links to where we stayed, this is not a definitive guide to family travels (ha!). We still have so much to learn. I'm just writing everything from our limited experience and what worked for us. 

Which brings me to the next two disclaimers:

  • Please don't take a trip like this unless you really, really (really) want to. It took us lot of work--before, during, and after--to make it happen. It was expensive. We were joyfully at a point where we were able to put in the work and money to make it happen. After years of not being able to, we were thrilled over the gift of this. The hard work and learning to be ok with spending money was what actually made this trip so enjoyable (more on that in a future post). 
  •  This trip and how we did it, worked for our family. It might not work for yours, and that it totally ok! I know there will be people who read this and think "They did that?! That doesn't sound like a relaxing vacation at all!" or "Why would they choose to spend your time, money and effort in that way?" We totally get that. My hope is not to inspire you to take a trip like this, my hope is to inspire you to do what you can to invest in beautiful memories that you will look back on with happy, teary, warm emotions. That's going to look different for every household. I couldn't love the truth of that more. Amen?

Ok, I think that's it. Let's get started! 

We booked early flights out of Cincinnati. For the beginning of big trips, we like to start as early as possible to make the most of the day. Plus, mama doesn't function very well late at night and that's not how we wanted to start off our travels, ha!

We always try to arrive airport at least two hours ahead of our flight time. Just making room any potential delays like,  toddler meltdowns (waking up at 4am is hard!) and poopy diaper explosions (which definitely happened right as we were walking out the door). More time buffers = less stress for all of us.

Things I want to remember:

  • Behr crunching on a giant apple while we rode the bus from the parking lot to the airport. 
  • How Scout still rode snug and warm in the Solly Wrap right through check-in, security, and the long walk through the sleepy, still rousing airport. 
  • That peach line that appeared on the horizon right as we found our gate; the sun showing up to send us off. 
  • The messy tangle that grew and grew in our seats. Both of them still in moccasins, my heart! 
  • How Scout absolutely refused to fall asleep with me, but as soon as she was placed in Jonathan's arms she was out in minutes. 

The flight with them went exactly how you'd probably guess. They were equal parts fascinated, antsy, hangry, and excited the whole time. And as any parent knows, all of that can make for an interesting combination. I'll just say that while I'm so, so thankful that we were able to fly out to the West Coast as a family, I was also more than ready to get off that plane when we touched down at SFO. ;) 

I have a similar picture like the one below with Behr on the train from the last time we landed in the San Francisco. It was so special and heart-heavy-with-goodness to be back here with him. 

Once we left the airport, we thought about trying to hunt down a local place to eat but remembered the In-N-Out right beside the airport. It was our first meal the last time we landed here, so it just felt right to do a repeat.  Also, it tasted pretty dang good. Airplane snacks can only go so far, am I right?

By this time, we were feeling ready to stretch our legs. Chrissy Field was our first scenic stop. There was a bit of loud construction happening along the walk down to the beach, but when our feet finally touched the sand, we had the whole beach basically to ourselves. 

We had made it! After months of planning and preparation. After that long season of head-down, survival mode, we  we're finally standing there blinking in the sun while the Pacific chuckled onto the sand at our feet. Behr got to see the giant red bridge with his inquisitive eyes. Scout squeaked and pointed and chirped at the waves. Jonathan and I both exhaled in our own quiet ways. 

We eventually loaded back up, saying 'good-bye' to San Francisco for now, knowing we'd be back soon. We then crossed the Golden Gate Bridge for a short drive out of the Bay. Unknowingly headed towards all the unexpected magic waiting for us in Inverness, CA.

Post two in the series coming soon...

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Travel Notes

  • Start your trip with the mindset that it's all going to ebb and flow. The stress, the sweetness, the hunger, the tantrums, the golden moments. Embrace that things won't go as planned and they might even be better (just like any other time of life really). The best way to handle whatever you encounter is to breathe slowly through the icky things and fall head-long into the wondrous times. What an adventure! 
  • Use the heck out of Google Maps. This might be a no-brainer but, we used it like crazy! I especially loved the "Your Places" tab where I could have separate sections labeled "Want To Go" and "Favorites". It's where we saved all the locations we wanted to check out and kept us on track the whole trip. 
  • Dress everyone comfortably. This is my rule for flying or roadtripping. Either way, you're going to be sitting for long periods of time. For me this meant wearing: Blanqi leggings (looove them!) a loose fitting, button down dress from H&M and TOMS Del Rey sneakers (these shoes were amazing for so many reasons!) I scored them during TOMS secret sale last year thanks to my sister Melissa telling me about it. Here's the link to sign up to be notified when the sale goes live again. 
  • For the kids: Elastic waistbands, stretchy pants and loose shirts. Behr wore thin sweat pants from Old Navy and Scout wore stretchy baby girl "jeans". Because aren't those leg creases from sitting in stiff jeans too long the worst?! We also put them in Freshly Picked moccs on travel days because they are so comfy for those pudgy little feet. They hardly even notice they are wearing them, and thus less likely to take them off when we're not looking. We almost always wait for the sales to stock up on our moccasins. I've never regretted investing in them though. Our kids wear them everyday. 
  • Favorite baby carrier for the airport: the Solly Wrap. The low profile, lightweight, and superbly comfortable fit worked best in my opinion.; especially since I was also carrying our Whirlwind Backpack. 
  • Make time and effort for pictures! My camera and phone are always easily accessible. You will NOT regret having images to look back on and jog your memory. We brought our 5D Mark iii and 35mm 1.4 Sigma Art lens for this trip. I also shot a lot with my Samsung Galaxy S9.  For editing: Lightroom + my own presets for "big camera" shots. And a combination of VSCO (that trusty A6 filter) and Snapseed  for phone pictures. 
  • Behr's little wooden camera is from Father's Factory. They generously sent it to us in return for my sharing about it. There will be more on it soon. But right now, I'll just say that Behr loved it. And, personally I can't get over how well made and beautiful it is. 

when you don't have it all figured out yet - in partnership with Kelly Moore Bags

This post is a collaboration with Kelly Moore Bag.  I've  been a customer of theirs for years. We owned a messenger style from them as our first diaper bag as well as a backpack style (The Pilot). I reached out to them because I wanted review their Austin Bag (a vegan leather bucket-style purse/camera bag) and they graciously agreed to send one over. This post is my review of it. 

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Let's talk about being grown up. 

What does that feel like exactly?

I read a quote once that went something like this: "Nothing will ruin your twenties like thinking you need to have your entire life figured out in your twenties." I don't know who said that originally (if you do, please let me know!) but, my goodness, it resonates strongly with me right now. 

I'll be twenty-nine this June. And guess what, it's a rare thing for me to feel like I've got everything mapped out, to feel grown-up.

As silly as you may think it is, this bag from Kelly Moore, helps me feel like more of an adult on those days when I get down about still having such a long way to go. Yes, I'm serious.

I've never been a "carry a purse" kind of woman. For whatever reason, I just don't. But having used this bag for awhile now, I'm really in love with idea of having  something that carries just my things. But let's be real, I can still throw snacks and diapers in this thing if I really need to. 

Why I love this bag:

  • The compact, easy to access design. I can fit our DSLR camera, my phone, a small notebook and pen, as well as all the baby necessities if the situation calls for it. Everything inside can be gotten to quickly or secured safely with the drawstring and snap closure. 
  • The material. Let's be honest, this season of motherhood comes with every imaginable spill, stain and form of spit ups. I've had this bag for months now and it still looks almost brand new. Anything that happens to splash on the outside simply wipes off. 
  • The versatility. I use it primarily as a camera bag because of the padded insert (with dividers!) But the insert is completely removable if I wanted to use this has just a simple purse. It also comes with a longer shoulder strap if I want to wear it messenger style.  

We made a visit over the weekend to our favorite local coffee roasters, Carabello Coffee. Inside, they have a wall where people leave little notes and jotted thoughts in the cracks of the exposed brick. While Jonathan was ordering our drinks I tucked into this cozy booth with the kids. Behr was completely caught up in pulling out different scraps of paper from the wall and insisting I read them aloud.

Eventually, we unfolded the one pictured below. 

"Isn't it funny how day by day nothing changes. But when you look back, everything is different." -C.S. Lewis

In this season of life, my days can become monotonous. Raising two babies who can't even feed themselves or go to the bathroom unassisted can all start running together. Add in a regular routine or irregular sleep and sometimes I can hardly differentiate one week from another. 

But, every so often I do "look back". I think of who I was ten years ago, five years ago, last year. That's when I realize how much I've changed. It's strange though, because at every milestone, I never felt like I was grown up yet. I just felt like I was making it up as I went along.  

Maybe I'll stop trying to call myself a grown adult, and instead make my peace with always being a growing adult. 

I mention this often, but I'm still very much in "figuring it out" mode. I'm ok with that. I've come to understand that I don't want to ever get to a point in my life where I think: "I'm done. This is it. I have nothing left to learn."

But at the same time, I want to walk confidently in the woman God has made me to be thus far. This is an honest struggle for me. As with most things in life, it's about accepting the dance of living with both emotions. 

Here's to loving where I'm at while still expectantly hopeful for who I'm know I can become in the future.

And for those days when I'm needing a secret, "Yes, I actually am an adult woman." confidence boost, I'll have this pretty little bag slung over my shoulder.